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November 9th, 2006 · 6 Comments

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I love me some Toronto so far. It’s a great town with lots of diversity. I don’t just mean diversity in people, it’s also diverse in its urban fabric (houses, buildings, etc), amenities (just about anything you could ever need is generally really close to your abode), food (I’ve seen nearly every level and type of food on offer here) and, above all, the people seem really, really nice.

Yesterday, I was in the drug store to buy a bottle of water. A long line had formed, and a woman who was checking out noticed an error in the price she was charged. The man in front of me shifted his weight in a visible display of annoyance, but remained silent. A colleague opened the next checkout stand, and the people who were waiting behind me and the weight-shifter all stood still, gesturing toward the new line.

“You’re next,” a teenage girl said to the annoyed guy. He didn’t say anything, but took his place in the new line and started his transaction.

I was now next in the queue, but I figured I’d just wait in my current line since the woman in front of me was now paying, so when the teenage girl motioned for me to go to the new line, I said, “no, please” and gestured toward the new line.

“Are you sure?” she asked.

“Of course. Go ahead.”

And just like that, the lines divided fairly in half. People filed into line, each being sensitive to their “place” before the schism.

In Vienna, and a lot of other European places, that second line would have resulted in a mob scene. The last person in line would have taken the first position in the new line and even if anybody would have uttered an “Ich bin die naechste!”, nobody would have paid any attention. At best, the speaker would get a shrug from the cashier.

I’m all for cultural difference, I’m a fan of the world, I like to learn about people. Sometimes, traveling teaches you what you value and what you find superfluous. Cultural sensitivity dictates that one does nat make comparisons not that one way of doing things is not necessarily better than the other. However, I’m sure enjoying the superior customer service, friendliness and good manners of Toronto right now.

Tags: General · Travel

6 responses so far ↓

  • 1 Val Pal // Nov 9, 2006 at 3:15 pm

    What?! You came across the pond and you’re not even making a pilgrimage to your favorite city NYC? I’ll show you friendliness and good manners.

  • 2 Horst // Nov 11, 2006 at 5:22 am

    The concept of queues is totally foreign to the Viennese.

    So foreign in fact that when the post office in the first district introduced a new queuing system that resulted in people being served much faster, they received numerous complaints just because the queue looked longer.

  • 3 novala // Nov 11, 2006 at 6:53 am

    Nicely said, Scott.

    It’s not right, it’s not wrong – it’s just different.

  • 4 Meredith // Nov 17, 2006 at 11:22 am

    “It’s not right, it’s not wrong – it’s just different.”
    No, respecting others and their place in a queue is right. We’re not animals, we’re people. We’re not children, we’re adults. Total disregard for others is at the core of every problem I can think of in this world.

  • 5 novala // Nov 18, 2006 at 6:49 am

    You are right, but it doesn’t harm to apply a bit of diplomacy when visiting other countries. It won’t help much to come to Vienna as a foreigner and tell rude people in a cue that they are not animals.

  • 6 scotty // Nov 18, 2006 at 9:38 am

    Also, in Vienna’s defense, the entire city and its population put a ton of effort into making sure other people have good lives—just not when waiting in line.

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